Thursday, August 28, 2014

Laughter As A Science 2: Electric Boogaloo



Ok, you guessed it! I watched both Breakin' movies! For those of you who don't know what movies these were, I'll bring you up to speed:

Breakin': It's the 80's... there's a professional dancer trying to make it to the big time. Though she's stuck in a rut and equally stuck in dogmatic traditional forms of dancing, her inner creative self is seeking a to burst out and find that creative edge her soul is looking for. Yet she doesn't know what to do or where to turn. Disgruntled and feeling slightly oppressed by traditional dancing, the young girl finds herself on the Venice Beach Boardwalk. She comes across a group of street performers doing a new, edgy style of dancing. She befriends these dancers who "breakdance" and finds herself discovering her creativity, freedom, and her real self.

Breakin' 2 Electric Boogaloo: Let's face it... some sequels were made for pure profit. But when you're 6 years old, all you care about is how much fun something is! I don't remember the plot, I vaguely remember any storyline, however, I do remember that everybody solved their problems with dancing! That, to me, was the essence of Electrc Boogaloo! You can dance your problems away! Joy was the solution!

When I began my spiritual journey, I was depressed. In fact, I suffered from depression and was on anti-depressants. It was difficult for me to feel happy, let alone enjoy hearing the sound of laughter. I couldn't see myself as a happy person. Then I found Laughter Yoga. I'll admit that I faked it in the beginning. As I did Laughter Yoga even more, however, I found that the fake laughter became the real laughter. My problems were still there, but by laughing, I was no longer stuck in the emotions I once associated to my problems. In a weird way, I felt more confident in my outlook on life. My problems became more manageable.

The physiological benefits of laughter had allowed me to dissipate the heaviness I was emotionally feeling. According to www.helpguide.org, under "Laughter is the Best Medicine, The Health Benefits of Humor and Laughter," a person "can't feel anxious, angry, or sad when you’re laughing."Although there are layers to why we laugh, physiologically, while a person is laughing, the body isn't experiencing anything else but the act of laughing. The body is taking in more oxygen, releasing physical tension, and endorphins increase.

For me personally, lifting myself from depression involved me laughing more. While being depressed, I came to the understanding of "laughter is the best medicine" (Anon).  Truth be told, before I found Laughter Yoga at the Agape International Spiritual Center in Culver City, I started watching a lot of stand up on my computer. The act of laughing did help, and over time, I started to feel much better. Once I started Laughter Yoga, the inner joy began to increase. Over time, I was able to get off of anti-depressants and I started going for walks to the beach. The process and daily practice of laughing had pulled me out of a sad and lonely place.

As I continue my practice of laughing daily, I come across numerous studies to empirically support the importance of humor and joy in our lives. If you feel the need to geek out over data, then I highly encourage you to check out Dr. Kataria's website www.laughteryoga.org . If you want to jump right into it, then feel free to join your local laughter yoga club. 

Laughing, like dancing, can help you in overcoming sadness or depression. Though I also believe the psychotherapy played a large part in my recovery, laughing was beneficial in more ways than I could have imagined. 

Thank you for reading!

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Thursday, August 21, 2014

Laughter as a Science?










Did you know that scientists have developed a way to "study" laughter?

It's called Gelotology (from the Greek 'gelos' meaning to laugh)!

We've all heard that "laughter is the best medicine" and from our own experiences, we know that having a good laugh makes us feel better. What's interesting with Gelotology is that it's still not recognized as a viable subject. Psychiatrists, psychologists, and social scientists have been advocating laughter having healing and analgesic properties (Embodiment in Cognition and Culture, John Michael Krois). Apparently, laughter can heal.

According to www.cancercenter.com , "For people living with cancer, it may seem strange to find humor when facing such serious issues. Yet, laughter can be helpful in ways you might not have realized or imagined." (http://www.cancercenter.com/treatments/laughter-therapy/)

Furthermore, "Rod Martin, a psychologist and laughter researcher at the University of Western Ontario in Canada, theorizes that laughter improves mental performance by accelerating the heartbeat, thus increasing oxygen supply to the brain." (http://www.scientificamerican.com/article/a-healthy-laugh/)

In our time, laughter and overall happiness is being studied at an ever increasing rate. What does this mean for you?

You don't need to know the science behind laughing or the biochemistry behind having a good laugh. If you can give yourself permission to find joy in your life and increase the amount of laughs you do during the day, you may find that your trips to the doctor may decrease!

Don't take my word for it.... Just laugh!

E.J. Katigbak, CHt, MA (Psychology), leads Happy Meditations. He developed this from his own healing experiences and education. E.J. is a Marine Corps veteran, has served in Iraq & Afghanistan AND is a survivor of PTSD.



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Thursday, August 14, 2014

The Case for Happiness

“Yesterday's the past, tomorrow's the future, but today is a gift. That's why it's called the present.”


 Bil Keane quotes (American Artist creator of the comic strip "Family Circus" b.1922)

          Happiness is something we all crave. This state, condition, or emotion we designate as "happiness" is something that as individuals, we pursue. Remembering when Thomas Jefferson coined the phrase, "Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness," I delved into my own mind for what this pursuit meant to me. 
           As I was thinking about what happiness was, I began to go down this path. Essentially, I was "pursuing" happiness. I once heard that pursuing anything actually pushes it away. I understand this principle and saw it as something to be debated. Philosophically, pursuing something is equivocal to "chasing" something. When someone chases something, an element of desperation emerges. From this perspective, then, "pursuing" happiness means that one is pushing it away. 
          However, if you're not happy, then how would you become happy? In order to become happy, or "be" happy, one has to not "be" happy in the first place. Someone who is unhappy would have to become happy, do something to "be" happy, or "understand" that happiness is a state that is always available. In this instance, happiness is something to become, or "be" and one would have to "do" something in order to "be" happy. Right? 
          Can a person just zap themselves into happiness? 
          Can someone just happy, or does someone have to "do" happy in order to "be" happy? 
          In my Happiness Meditations, we sort of answer this. We "do" happy through laughter exercises and playing games to stimulate and enter into the physiology of happiness. By incorporating mindful meditation, those who've attended the Happiness Meditations feel the feelings of happiness and discern where we can use more happiness. Understanding this new perspective allows us to bring about happiness in situations in life where one would need it most. By "doing" the process of happiness, we become, or "be" happy. 
          This then begs the question, is happiness only a state? 
          Is happiness a behavior? 
          Although defining happiness may seem elusive and too abstract to encapsulate, the act of doing so actually answers "is happiness a momentary feeling, or is it a behavior?" Through the act of understanding what happiness means to you as an individual, you are attuning your mind to begin looking for answers. Seeking to define happiness allows you to open up to your own feelings of happiness, thereby creating a happiness "blueprint" for the behavior to follow. Unconsciously, you begin to "act" or "behave" happily in ways that you would think happy behavior looks like, sounds like, or feels like. 
          In doing so, Happiness is not just a feeling, not just a behavior, but a condition. 
          Congratulations on  having the condition of happiness.